Sunday, 5 of September of 2010

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Want positive changes? Change your words!

If you are using low-vibrational words, you are not getting the best results in your life.
                              
"The Ghost Queen"A good way to make positive changes in your life on all levels is to be more aware of how you use your words.
If you are using low-vibrational words, you are not getting the best results in your life.
 
If you want to  make changes and get more positive results. Change the way you use language.
 
How do you wonder? By using high vibrational words.
 
Instead of can’t, hate, fat, mad, failure, sad, old,  sick, vulnerable, and difficult. Try using words like believe, love, opportunity, value, improve, heart, vibrant, vital, and free.
 
When you get in a situation and feel you have to make a comment, remember to make your comment as if you believe it true now, even if you feel you are still stretching to make that happen.
Like ” I feel really dumb on the computer” try ” I am feeling better all the time about my computer finesse”.
Instead of  ” It sucks to get older”  use ” I am getting more vibrant every day”.
Instead of  “My kids don’t appreciate me”  try  “I am happy to have a good relationships with my kids”.
 
We have this thing going in our communication that if I get on a pity party that you need to join me and come down to my level .
Untrue! You don’t need to join, you can observe how they are choosing to express their viewpoint  without lowering your own vibration to go their with them.
Just like when you best friend wants to moan and groan about her X-husband, just smile and say that’s weird mine is one of my best friends. Or change the subject if it is a sore place for you.
When people get caught in these dramas we call them pain tapes, it is like they are on a loop and keep playing the disappointment over and over.  You can insert a wedge in the loop in you want to, like I just suggested or use something else like ” Gee, Sue tell us about something good in your life”.  A wedge is like a thought stopper, I use them in hypnosis to stop a bad habit idea and create some room for a new idea or habit to shape up.
 
When you begin to get this on your mind you can become more aware of the low impact words in your life and change them out for higher value words.  These are just simple choices we make with our words that can make some really positive changes in your results!
See my book store on my web site for a really cool book by Ms. Oswald on choosing better words.
Let me know your best stratgey for higher impact words and how it has helped you!
 
Have a powerful day!
MarVeena-Ghost Queen
http://www.marveena.com
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Lunar Eclipse

A grand cross alignment with a lunar eclipse

We have an awesome Full Moon this weekend.
There is a Grand Cross alignment and a lunar eclipse.
The key to using this energy is finding the things you would like to change in your life. Create a fire ceremony of some sort. A perfect time to use the burning bowl ceremony. Write down the situation that you are wanting to change. Then release it to the fire.

You can use a special fire ceremony to send out your desire for positive change. I use this ceremony in my full moon Labyrinth ceremonies.
The burning bowl ceremony can be as elaborate, or simple, as you want to design it. The first thing I do is have each person write on a small piece of paper something or some quality that they want to manifest in the next moon cycle or year. If you have a secret name use that name to sign it.
Close it with a symbol that is special to you or your spiritual path. A star with a circle around it is a symbol of manifestation of spirit into form. We then write on a separate piece of paper something or quality that they would like to give away in the upcoming month/year. This is their ‘give away’ prayer. For instance, “I give away my anger regarding my failed marriage.” “I give away poor concentration in school.” “I gave away my need for sweets.
Some people will use special paper to write this on, like flash paper.
I usually use plain white 2 x 4 inch paper. You can add any symbols to the message you like, for example an astrological symbol, or a symbol that has meaning and power to you.

You need a fireproof container to burn them in. I always do this ceremony outside. Have a lid handy for your container and a fire stick lighter. Create a special place or altar to do your ceremony on. I have a cast-iron container that I only use for ceremony.

I like to create a ceremonial space invocation/evocation calling the powers, elements and aspects that I desire in my circle. If you don’t know one, then you can pray from the heart.

We put it in the bowl and let the fire spirits consume the paper. Then visualize the fire spirits taking it out on the ethers for manifestation. Then we start our ‘give away’ prayers the same way. We ask our ancestors since all ways and for always to witness what we are intending to give away in this ceremony. Then we light that prayer. I am from the old school which interprets that if the piece of paper burns right up the prayers will be answered, if not, there might be a challenge to the prayer. So if your paper does not burn right up, your wish may not come true. At least not right away. There is something blocking it. It is your job to figure that out.
After we all go around with our prayers, we thank all the powers, elements and all whom we invited in for their help. We open the circle. The burning bowl has been a powerful part of my monthly full moon circle. One 13-year-old girl manifested a puppy, and a horse among other things with this prayer ceremony. That is powerful intending!
It has been a great way for us to really focus on what we want to accomplish in the month ahead and banish any quality that might hamper us from doing it. For more ideas see my web site at www.ghostqueen.com

Blessings

MarVeena Ghost Queen

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Out of Karma into Dharma

Karmic relationships are created by our souls to help us make good on a situation we participated in another life time.

Clearing out old debt

If you feel like you have been hitting your head against a brick wall and life is turned against you this a good article for you. Karmic relationships are created by our souls to help us make good on a situation we participated in another life time. We might have hurt another person in some way and here we are in this life time being hurt for reasons we can’t explain. Perhaps there is a reason that started before we were born.

Below is a check list to help you process karma with intent. Any thing that we do willing is easier for us to move through. We may still have difficulty but at least we are making an attempt to right any wrongs.

1. Each morning create an intention to be aware of unconsciously or consciously of individuals you have out standing debt with. You can get this info through your dreams or by meditating.

2. Meditate with your guides and ask them to help you have some clues as to who they are and what sort of pain and suffering you might have caused them in the past.

3. Create an intention to connect to your highest guardian angel and then to their highest guardian angel. Ask their highest guardian angel how you can make up for any pain and suffering you caused them with intention or not.

4. Make a list of all the individuals you think you have debt with. Only meditate on one a day. Maybe even one a week. Some times it takes a while to actually get a response and be in a position to apologize to their soul and let that piece go.

5. Reflect on this life time and any one you might have disappointed or hurt either intentionally or not.
Again connect to their highest guardian angel through your for a talk. Speak your heart, then give them time to “speak” theirs. How did the pain you caused carry through in their life? How has this pain affected them to this day?
Ask them if they can forgive you. If not ask what can you do now to make up to them.

6. If it is reasonable try to do it.

When you have paid your debts this life time and other life times it is easier to be in balance and harmony. Your relationships are more dharmic than karmic. Which is a lot more joyful!
As one of my delightful hypnosis teachers says “stay in love”. See more info at www.marveena.com
Namaste’

MarVeena-Ghost Queen

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Teaching on Bumble Bee’s

Since the bumble bee doen't know it can't fly, it does anyway!

Since I live on a ranch we are always having different little animals come around. My teacher taught me that each animal offers a different lesson or teaching. When you see an animal and it really gets your attention, the universe is trying to tell me something. Today the creature that “got” my attention was the bumble bee.
The teaching around it is that the bumble bee is not really aero dynamically able to fly. The body is bigger than the wings. No one told the bumble bee this, since it doesn’t know it can’t fly it fly’s any way. What I take away from this is don’t let other people tell you that you can’t dream. Dream anyway!
Today is busy with readings and keeping my ranch hand in supplies.

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Ceremony to Rescind Vows

The Divine Creator does not need us to make vows or deals

 

Vows are different than intentions, some times for whatever reason we take vows that put us in limitations. When you are in that place this is a great ceremony to do to call back your power in a good way. The Divine Creator does not need us to make vows or deals.

You can help creates the ceremony by lighting some candles, a little smudge,  nice incense. Call your most Holy Guardian Angel to you to help with this ceremony.

 

I now rescind any and all vows that I have taken to experience the illusion of unconsciousness.
As a  Light bearer of my genetic lineage. I break these vows for myself and all of my ancestors.
 
I declare these vows null and void in this incarnation, and all incarnations across time and space, parallel realities, parallel universes, alternate realities, alternate universes, all planetary systems, All Source systems, all dimensions, and the Void.
 
I ask for the release of all crystals, devices, thought forms, emotions, matrices, veils, cellular memory, pictures of reality, genetic limitations, and death. NOW!
 
Under the Law of Grace and by the Decree of Victory!
By the Decree of Victory! By the Decree of Victory!
 
As Spirit wills, I ask for Awakening! As Spirit wills, we Awake!
In the Beginning.  I AM THAT I AM!
 
B”resheet. Ehyeh Asher Ehyeh!
 
By Tashira Tachi-ren

 

 

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Create New Year’s Intentions

If you are not intending your time, you are pretending!
New Year’s Intentions
 
 
My apprentice guide always told me if you are not intending your time you are pretending. It means you are spinning your wheels.
By segment intending we can break down the time we have in a day and allocate different amounts to the projects we have.
The trick is to have time set aside for the different aspects of our self. Our career-physical life, our mental self, our emotional self, our spiritual self and soul/life force energy. 
Some times we get caught up in a survival mode where it is all about making a living. We then will ignore the other aspects of our self. This is a trap and creates distress in the other aspects of our life. We have to have balance to be successful in the end.
I make a to-do today list. Write down the major things I intend to finish or work on and how much time goes to different projects that are on going. Then I set my timer for that amount of time. This gives each project a container. When the timer goes off I wrap up that piece and take a little transition break before moving to the next piece of business. This helps me to keep things moving and get this done.
So here are my seven tips:
 
1. Write a list to ground the idea.
2. Set a time, stick to it.
3. Do something for each of the five aspects of self
4. Let the inner child have a little fun
5. Rest in between projects to rejuvenate.
6. Re-evaluate your finished projects at the end of the day.
7. Be flexible, this keeps us fluid and moving.
 
Be more aware of energy sucks, are other people’s business eating up your precious time? If so learn to create stronger boundaries around your self and a stronger sense of worthiness for your personal dreams. I teach my students how to do this on an ongoing basis.
Find a mentor, coach or guide to help you push your personal edge this year. There are many programs available. I have had an Apprentice Guide for 10 years.  Some times it is really hard but it helps me to get things going! I wouldn’t have a 2nd degree black belt if it weren’t for my Apprentice Guide,
Good luck! Call or email me if you need more ideas on this we can set up a reading.
 
May you have a powerful and Blessed New Year!
MarVeena-Ghost Queen

 

 (c) Dec 30, 2009
 
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