Anger can build up and cause major chaos, illness and even disease in your body.
Transforming Anger is a step forward toward the healing process!
Learn what the anger really means helps you discover more about your self and your soul mission.
Each week I take a question off of my Facebook Wall to answer here in this column. Below, Darlene writes:
I’m writing this e-mail to you about the passing of my sweet precious son Allen. He passed suddenly and without any warning at the age of 37. My heart spirit and soul are broken into pieces. He had a great life, wife and they were trying to have a baby. I keep asking God why he took him from us. I’ve gotten no reply
I’m very angry and broken. I don’t understand why he took him so young. Why did he give Allen to me just to take him away. A parent is not supposed to bury their child.
I would greatly appreciate any feedback.
Transforming anger is key for you to move on. Channel that energy in a positive way.
Having a dialog with your son in spirit will be the first step. Ask your Angels to bring him in to a dream for a conversation. You can also connect to him in a meditation or in a mediumship reading.
I realize that it is not the physical validation that you crave. This is a time in your life for you to get some major soul truths and understandings. Let your mind entertain the idea that every soul moves on into another life after the death of this body.
This planet Earth is a wonderful place! Yet it is just one place in the Universe where we can have adventures from a place of innocence. We don’t know our true connection to the Holy Spirit and each other.
When you can adjust your mindset and truly know that the life of the soul goes on, the healing process can move forward.
Another thing that is very helpful to transforming anger to God, your self or anyone else is to know that all of the people in your circle of friends knew you before you all were born and agreed to be a part of your time in this life journey. Your children told your soul before they were born, even before you were born what they planned and the years they planned to stay. They told you the major life lessons they needed your help on, and you told them yours.
I can promise you that God is not mad at you. God didn’t take away your son. A person or animal doesn’t need an excuse like illness or an accident to die. They can be fine and dandy one minute and quietly die on their sleep. A great idea to break is the one where you might think this earth is the best place for life, or the only place for life. It is one of many dimensions where our souls choose all sorts of adventures.
Transforming anger about the loss of your child can help you to be closer to his spirit, then you might be able to “psychically” hear his ideas, or messages that he wants to bring across to you.
I am sure The Holy Spirit wants you to go on living and looking for joy and love in life. Sometimes we have to let go of what we were taught was the right and good thing to plan for in this life journey. Like the pension, two car garage, 3 kids and die of old age. We didn’t come in to this earth plane to lead a cookie cutter life.
If you have a life with no challenges or obstacles, you probably won’t get as much value out of all the interactions.
A lot of us are challenged by the thing that is hardest for us to face or do. Taking some the process of transforming anger is a step in the right direction.
When The Universal Architect is ready to share a message with you, then you will get the message in the form of a dream or some sort of message out of the blue.
I promise you can stomp your foot all day long and demand an answer and it will get you know where.
More often that you would think, people book readings and tell me they are mad at God for taking their world apart. They want to know why it happened to them. Unfortunately the Karmic pieces of business that are playing out are often way out of our ability to understand or appreciate.
We simply can’t wrap our minds into it.
By taking some quite time to meditate and pray you open the doorways of communication to The Holy Spirit. I think of it as a two way connection. When you are praying your are speaking your peace and asking your questions. When you meditate, you are giving The Holy Spirit time to talk. Either directly to you or maybe through the Angelic Realm.
Please don’t make this harder than it is. Anyone can meditate or pray. Sitting with spirit and holding the intention to begin transforming anger thoughts is a powerful start.
You might need some one to guide you through this, like a grief counselor, a hypnotherapist, or spiritual type of healer.
Ask for the help you need, let your Angels arrange the connection!
I know for some of you is sounds so crazy but we can get messages from our loved ones, there is life after death of the body. The soul is what animates the physical body.
When the soul pulls out of the body, the life force goes with it. Usually it takes any where from 7 hours to 3 full days for the soul to come out of a body.
Don’t judge the quality of some ones soul journey by the time in the physical body.
Another thing to look at is the idea our Divine connection, you might think that your child was yours and had no agenda on his own. But all mothers and fathers know from a soul perspective that they are opening the door way for other souls to come into this dimension. They all have their own soul mission and agenda.
If you can back away from the thought of him being yours and here for your purpose, I think it will help a lot.
There is a lot of old stuff that colors your thoughts and emotions that is no longer serving you. Time to begin the process of forgiving, letting go, transforming anger ideas so you can make a strong connection with The Holy Spirit and your sons spirit.
I highly recommend a combination soul clearing/reading to help you process this.
Sending Bright Healing Blessings your way!!
MarVeena (c) June 2016